Family secrets. Practice of system shatter. Markova N.

Nadezhda Markova is a psychotherapist with rich work experience, author of bestsellers on systemic arrangements. In the book, she tells what consequences for descendants can be if secrets from relatives that relate to the history of your genus and, in case of disclosure, can tarnish the image of the family. They hide “shameful” deaths: murder or suicide, death from criminal abortions, alcoholism, drug addiction. Infertility, divorce, ruin, vile acts, ialides with the law, bad heredity do not publicize. The abandoned, aborted, illegitimate and foster children, treason, betrayal of any kind, violence by relatives are silent.

The purpose of all secrets to save family values, to maintain a good name, or even life, to facilitate the existing position. But over time, what was hidden to protect the family, as a result, can destroy it. People experience flour of conscience, worry, get sick, suffer due to the fact that in their family history there was an episode for which they cannot forgive themselves. And if those who committed the hidden take the secret with them to the grave, then others pay for it. Their children or grandchildren unconsciously take upon themselves the atonement of someone else's guilt. You can help heal the family-Rod system systems.

In this book you will see on the example of the life stories of the author’s clients and the arrangement sessions for them, as the secrets of now living or dead relatives, affect our life and fate Our children and grandchildren. You will learn that it is safer for you and kind - to reveal or hide the secret, how not to become a hostage of the secret conspiracy of silence, how to neutralize the destructive consequences of secrets and cleanse the family from the influence of the distant past family. The application presents permissible phrases that facilitate the psycho -emotional state, you can contact them outside the context of the arrangements.