Lessons of the master nlp. Effective communication techniques. Vladislavova N.

Psychologist-practitioner, NLP trainer Nadezhda Vladislavov will introduce you to the laws of communication that work in all areas of life: in personal relations, communicating with colleagues and leadership, when building contact with new people. Knowing these laws, you can correctly respond to criticism and express critical remarks, without touching the interlocutor, learn to express support to people in difficult situations, reveal the secrets of personal attractiveness and sensitivity.

Effective, time -tested NLP techniques and transactional techniques Analysis developed by the famous Eric Bern, interesting examples and practical exercises make this book a universal textbook of communication.

The ability to communicate is an art that, not mastering which, not to build harmonious relations in the family, not to make a career, not to become happy. Required in the art of communication with others, we are improving in the art of accepting ourselves and interaction with oneself. The opposite is true: comprehending proper communication with ourselves, we automatically begin to more harmoniously interact with both individual “others” and the world as a whole. 1. Communication is life, the lack of communication is the extinction of life.

2. The magic of communication has nothing to do with manipulation, where a person is forced to do something contrary to his will.

3. Change relations with yourself, and then your relationship with the world as a whole, as well as with its individual representatives will change automatically.

4. With proper interaction with another person, we help, first of all, to ourselves and only then - to him.

5. We still get 93 percent of information about the communication partner not from his words, but from his non -verbal messages.

6. Correctly this message “We are the same blood” allows you to instantly establish some special relations with another person, implying sympathy and trust at an unconscious level from the latter.

7. A very large part of people are a little capable of communicating with other people at the same level: on their part only messages from top to bottom or from the bottom up.

8. Any working context involves the mandatory subordination expressed in multilevel communication. The ability to build it correctly is the key to career growth.

9. To tell another person of nasty things and make a critical remark are fundamentally different things.

10. Nothing strengthens any relations as timely, the provision of emotional support to one person to another person, of course, provided that this is done correctly.

11. We learn to effectively communicate at all in order to please others: the magic of proper interaction allows, first of all, to maintain personal internal impeccability, increase over oneself and at the same time achieve the desired goal of communication.

12. It is important to learn how to interact with yourself with proper respect. Relations with other people are just a projection of how we are in contact with ourselves and our inner world.