Love does not love. What prevents you from creating a strong relationship and how to fix it. Stal Stephanie

“We only really became close, began to make plans for the future-and suddenly he stopped calling! What happened? ”

“ I thought that she was the same, but since we gathered, these relations began to strangle me. There is only one exit - parting. "

sounds familiar? Do you think that each time you fall in love with those? Perhaps we are not talking about banal love failures, but about Philophobia.

Philophobia - or fear of attachment - the cause of many unfortunate relations. Philofoers literally run away from love and intimacy - but fall in love again or over and over again return to their former partners, forcing them to suffer. Either approaching, then moving away, they turn even a sincere love in dependent, in which there is no place for stability, trust and understanding.

Stefani Stal - a psychotherapist and author of the bestseller “The child in you must find a house” sold by the circulation More than 1 million copies. In her new book, she tells why Philophobia arises, on what signs it can be identified, how to overcome the fear of attachment and how to help yourself if your partner turned out to be philophobe.